April Showers

Oh what a difference a few days make.  We thought old man winter would never leave. The picture on the left was taken from our front window a couple of weeks ago. It reminded me of a scene from CS Lewis "The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe". The picture on the right was taken today, April 28th. I've never been so happy to hear birds sing and to feel the sun on my face. Things are greening up nicely and people are out planting their gardens. Having lived in a dessert all my life, I've never seen so much water, rivers, streams and the ground is saturated with moisture. Every where you look is green and lush.  I hear that all that moisture will soon turn into humidity but for now I am enjoying it.

This has been a great month, the home sickness is gone and we are understanding our duties in the office. Sister Barlow is now the "mail merge queen" and we are learning the mission language (ZL's, DL's , Return and Report, ZLC, ect). We are ready to receive 21 new missionaries this week. Elder Barlow set up five new appartments, processed 21 new vehicles and we tried to meet the needs of about 175 missionaries. LIFE IS GREAT.
We were able to make another temple trip to the Palmyra Temple with our Stake. Sister Barlow is helping a branch member, William Capron, with his Family History. He is a recent convert to the church and yearns to have his family members sealed but he is too ill to do the work himself. We were able to research and perform 22 temple ordinances for his family.

John Young's Barn

Sister Allred and Sister Harris in front of John Youngs Home

We met up with Sister Allred and Sister Harris in Palmyra. They are two single Sister Missionaries that were in our District at the MTC. They are office Missionaries in the NY Rochester Mission. After our Temple session we took them out to lunch and followed them to Mendon, New York where they reside in the John Young home. John Young is the father of Brigham Young. The Young family, Kimball family and Israel Barlow family all lived in Mendon at the time of the restoration. Israel Barlow lived just down the road from this house (it no longer stands). They were members of the Reformed Methodist Church which had broken off from the Episcopal Methodist faith in 1814. They believed in revelation and gifts of the spirit. A few of Brigham's brothers and Israel Barlow were traveling preachers for that faith.


Tomlinson Inn, Mendon, New York

During the month of April 1830, Brigham Young's brother, Phinehas, returned home to Mendon after preaching in a near by town. He stopped at the Tomlinson Inn and while engaged in conversation with the family Phinehas said, "a young man came in, and walking across the room, to where I was sitting, held a book towards me saying, 'There is a book, sir, I wish you to read.'...I hesitated, saying 'Pray sire, what Book have you?' 'The Book of Mormon, or as it is called by some, the Golden Bible.'"

The young man was Samuel Smith on his first mission, just days after the gospel had been restored.  Phinehas accepted the book, as he explained to "make myself acquainted with its errors, so that I can expose them to the world." However, he reluctantly admitted, "To my surprise I could not find the errors I anticipated, but felt a conviction that the Book was true."

John Youngs Property. Brigham's Pond
is in the background

Two years later, missionaries arrived in Mendon and the entire Young family was baptized. At the time Brigham had a mill and home on his father's land. He was a furniture maker. He damned up the mill pond and was baptized in April of 1832. Israel Barlow was also experiencing his own conversion along with his friends the Youngs and the Kimballs and was baptized by his good friend, Brigham, in that same pond exactly a month later on May 16, 1832.
 

William Capron



YMCA Health Fair

Yesterday we experienced our first "real" missionary experiece. Along with our Elder's in the Oneida Branch, we set up a booth at the local YMCA health fair. We had a wonderful time visiting with those attending and sharing with them our message. Elder Barlow and I handed out information on how to start their Family History. We also had Family Tree's for the children to fill in. William Capron is the member we are helping with temple work. Brother Sanders, on the left, is in our Branch Presidency. Elder Black and Gutierez are the wonderful missionaries in our Branch.

 

 

March Adventures

Several weeks ago our grandson, Gabriel Williams, asked if we would participate in a school project. Gabe sent us "Flat Gabe" (a hand colored picture of himself) to take on an adventure. Our assignment was to take a picture with him when we visited any place interesting. At the end of our adventure we returned "Flat Gabe" to our Gabe with the adventures written on the back, along with pictures. So what follows in this blog are the adventures we had with "Flat Gabe" We are excited to hear how his assignment was received at school.

Early in the month we went on a Temple Trip with our friends in the Oneida Branch. It had been a hectic time for us. We were busy learning our new responsibilities and working with President Wirthlin to prepare for the increase in missionaries. We had little free time to explore our surroundings.  This was to be our first adventure away from the mission office. It turned out to be a beautiful day. Snow was still on the ground and the temps were low.  We enjoyed our time in the temple performing baptisms, inititories and an endowement.
 
We visited some of the sites around Palmyra such as Joseph Smiths home and the Sacred Grove. Palmyra is a special place. To think that God the Father and his Son, Jesus Christ, appeared to the boy Prophet in this very spot is truly humbling. Not far away is the Hill Cumorah, where Moroni appeared and gave instruction and eventually gave Joseph the plates of gold.

..Our day was soon to take an interesting turn. We decided to visit the Grandin Building, where the first Book of Mormon was published. It is on the main street in Palmyra and the Church has restored it. As we walked into the building we were greeted by the missionaries and invited to tour the facilities.  As we rounded a corner a cute family, also on tour came toward us. As I looked at the mother I realized that it was my niece, Amy Barlow and her family visiting from Texas. Now what are the odds of "Flat Gabe" finding cousins in New York? I called this my "tender mercy" from a loving Heavenly Father that knew, even grandma missionaries get home sick. "Flat Gabe" made another discovery while at the Grandin Building, it was hiding under a white cloth. Can you see what it is? He was very perceptive and curious.

Next, we took a stroll to the Erie Canal. We learned that one of the largest achievements of the early 19th century was the completion of the Erie Canal. What a lot of people don't know is that its construction helped to spark the fires of religious revival throughout the state which set the stage for the restoration. Palmyra was right on the Erie Canal. Joseph Smith's family arrived just when the Erie Canal opened the west for trade and travel. Many of our early Saints used it for transportaion.

After a quick trip to the fudge store and to the Hill Cumorah we started back home with "Flat Gabe".  We have often thought back on that wonderful day and the sites seen and friends we made along the way.

We returned home and continued preparing for the 23 new missionaries who entered the New York Utica Mission in March. We are enjoying an increased numbers of missionaries due to the announcement made by the church concerning the change in age. We love our missionaries. It is amazing to me how fast we become attached to them.  Notice one of my favorite Elder's standing in the back row, Elder Oloapu from New Zealand. These are all wonderful, dedicated Elders and Sisters.


On another cold but beautiful day, Elder and Sister Barlow, Elder and Sister Cutler and Flat Gabe went on another adventure. Up State New York is Maple Syrup country and for a very short few weeks in March, the conditions are perfect for the liquid to flow from the Maple trees which are in rich abundance.  We traveled about a half hour away to Ben and Judy's Sugar House where they actually gather and process Maple Syrup from their trees. As part of the yearly celebration they open their sugar house to the public and show how they process the yummy sweet syrup. They also serve a delious breakfast of hot cakes and home made maple syrup. The picture at the left is Ben, the owner.
 
"Flat Gabe" enjoyed the pancakes and I noticed he wasn't quite so flat after that.  He enjoyed meeting the family members who helped at the sugar house and tasted of their Maple candies, jellies and even cotton candy.




The conditions weren't right for the Maple liquid to flow that day, it was too cold, but we became educated on the art of producing that declicious product. Here you see Flat Gabe showing off a bucket which, in the olden days, held the liquid which drained from the tree. They would then have to collect all the buckets and place them in the horse drawn wagon and brought to the Sugar House. Today they drain the trees by inserting tubbing which runs down hill to the Sugar House.

Well, our adventures with "Flat Gabe" were over so we shipped him off, along with the pictures and a sampling of the maple syrup back to our Gabe in Utah. I'm going to miss the little guy.

The month of March was not over. Elder and Sister Barlow celebrated their 44th anniversary on the 29th. What wonderful years they have been. How blessed we are. But the crowning event was an all Mission Conference where we met with Elder Bednar of the twelve apostles, Bishop Davis of the Presiding Bishopric and two members of the Seventy's. I will never forget that day. What follows are excerpts from that meeting written in our "Harvester" mission news letter by our wonderful AP, Elder McKay Tingey:

Elders and Sister,  We send our love and appreciation to all of you. This month we experienced the blessing to have Elder David A. Bednar instruct us. During the confernece we discussed with him key principles of teaching, moral agency and faith.

Teaching: We are to teach in a manner that will enable others to feel the knowledge that comes through the spirit.  Teaching is observing, listening, and discerning; not "what do I do?" but "what do they need?"  As we receive by the Spirit what they need, we must "[follow] courageously the Spirit's guidance" in teaching others (PMG pg, 97).

Moral Agency: "Wherefore, the Lord God gave unto man that he should act for himself. Wherefore, man could not act for himself save it should be that he was enticed by the one or the other" (2 Nephi 2:16). We must be agents unto ourselves to act and not be objects to be acted upon.  We have never felt the Holy Ghost by being an object or by taking away one's agency.

Asking in Faith: In order to ask in Faith, we must ask with a determination to act. As Moroni says we must "ask with real intent."  Joseph Smith went to the grove to ask in faith and he was determined to act upon the answer he knew he would receive.  Elder Bednar said, "Action alone is not faith in the Savior but acting in accordance with correct principles is a central component of faith." The power comes after we exercise our agency. He then challenged us: "Based upon what I have observed, felt and learned today, what will we do?"

Durting the month of March we experienced fun, hard work and spiritual uplift.  It is a great opportunity and honor to serve our Savior, Jesus Christ.

A Day in the Life of Elder and Sister Barlow

 



Some have asked us what we are doing here in the New York, Utica Mission so let me take you on a tour. We get up about 5 am and have our study time and prayers. We get ready for the day then Elder Barlow heads out to get the snow and ice scrapped off the car. Sister Barlow slips into the nice warm car and off we go the few blocks to the mission office.  The office is attached to the Utica Stake Building. I haven't seen any other Mission Offices but I hear compared to others, it is very nice.

 

 

 .We turn on our computers and begin our work.  Elder Barlow is in charge of the 45 vehicles assigned to the mission and will soon be adding 30 more in the next three months. Our mission is growing fast with the changes announced in October Conference. When we arrived here there were just over one hundred missionaries but by the end of the summer we will be up to our maximum of 175. Elder Barlow is also responsible for the phones used by the companionships.  He has been working hard to set up 19 new apartments for the growing numbers of missionaries.

 

Sister Barlow loves working next to her companion. Her most important responsiblity is to forward all the mail and packages that come for the missionaries. Hundreds of pieces of mail come through the office each week. You should have seen Valentines week! She was excited to find mail waiting when they arrived. Chad's children drew beautiful pictures for their apartment. Two more pieces of mail came week before last. A Valentine from Caitlin and a "flat Gabe" from Gabe Williams. Yes, Sister Barlow loves getting mail too.  (note the yellow paste it note on her computer this morning, we'll get to that in a minute.)

 

tr Soon, Elder and Sister Cutler arrive. They are the other office couple. We have grown to love them. Sister Cutler takes care of the correspondence and Elder Cutler is responsible for the finances and apartments.  It's a big job to run a mission office. We all wonder how the last office couple managed to do everything themselves.  Sister Barlow is also assigned the task of ordering all supplies, keeping track of refferals, and the "Transfer Board".



This is a close up of the sticky note. It is a surprise encouragement note from one of our AP's, Elder Tollefson.  We love our AP's. They show us how to do all the majical things on the computer.

Elder Tollefson was just called as an AP. Elder Tingey is our seasoned AP. We will be sad to see him leave in a couple of months. They are great Elders.

President Wirthlin arrives to prepare for the day ahead. It is an exciting time. We are having ZLC today. All the Zone Leaders will be arriving shortly to receive instruction from the President and the AP's. Sister Barlow has all the supplies ready for them to take back to the five Zones. We love President and Sister Wirthlin. They love their missionaries and take good care of them. We are amazed at the responsibilites Mission President's have and hope we can releave some of the burden.

 

The New York, Utica Mission is the largest geographical mission in the US, reaching up to the Canadian boarder on the North and down to Pennsylvania on the South, Massachusets and Vermont to the East and the Finger Lake country to the West. It is considered Up State New York and most of the mission is very rural. Although their are no church sites in our mission,  a lot of church history happened in this area including the first Branch of the Church in Colesville.

The missionaries begin to arrive. We are so glad to see them. They are hard working, dedicated missionaries. This is Sister Reaire (forefront) She is one of our enthusiastic new sister missionaries. She loves her mission.






Here is a picture of the missionaries in President Wirthlin's office. They are admiring the "Transfer Board" that Sister Barlow just finished updating.  After a morning of training, we went around the corner to the Wirthlin home for lunch. Sister Wirthlin cooks wonderful meals for many of these meetings.

 Say "hi" to Frank. He has been installing a new telephone system in our office. He asked, "Why do they call these young men "Elders" They are not old?  He seemed to love being in our office. He said it was the most friendly office he had ever been in. It seemed he was feeling something special and didn't want to leave. Sister Barlow got up the nerve to give him a copy of the Book of Mormon. He said that he will read it. YES, I AM A MISSIONARY!

Earlier in the month 25 new missionaries arrived and three left our mission. Here are two of the new elders posing for a picture with the Wirthlin's. This month 27 more will arrive.  We were sad to see Elder Becerell, our AP, return home after a successful mission. He is pictured here with all the Sister Missionaries.

We arrive back to our cute little apartment around 6:00 pm, totally exhausted and ready for a rest. But wait, there is laundry to do and dinner to cook.  With the chores complete we fall into bed and wake up to do it again.  WE LOVE OUR MISSION.

 

Our Trip to the Mission Field

Sunday , February 3, 2013

Our Trip to the Mission Field

February 2013

 We bid farwell to the MTC on January 9th feeling fed both physically and spiritually. It truly is a "heaven on earth", a place set apart from the world. We left Provo the next day, headed for Ft. Collins, CO to say our good-byes to our three families there. We will miss our children and grand-children but wish to bless their lives with our mission.

 The second part of our trip was to Kansas City Missouri where our dear friends, President and Sister Hardy, preside over the temple there. They were so kind to put us up and help us along our way. They admonished us to visit the  church sites along the way. We are so glad we did.

We made our way to Columbus, Ohio where we spent the night. The next morning we arrived at Kirtland, Ohio and the Visitor's Center. The dear Sister Missionaries took us on tour of the N.K. Whitney Store where many relvelations were given to the Prophet Joseph Smith including the revelation that a temple was to be built there. This has great significance to our family for it was in this very room, pictured below, that our ancestor, Asahel Perry met the prophet for the first time.

 joAfter joining the church it was Asahel's deisre to meet the prophet. He journied to Kirtland which was the headquarters at that time. He and his neighbor, Aaron C. Lyon arrived in Kirtland where upon meeting the Prophet they were invited to a meeting with the Council. After opening the meeting, Joseph presented the buisness of building a temple to the people convened and then called upon those present for an expression of their feelings. Most of the brethren present seemed to feel that the Church was too poor to build a building of the magnitude required and that they had better build something smaller and less expensive, perhaps a nice log cabin.

During the discussion, Brother Lyon and Asahel stepped to one side of this room and conferred together as to whether they had any money to spare and have sufficient left to take them home. They concluded that they could spare a trifle each. They returned and presented it to the Prophet, whereupon Joseph arose and spoke in a very animated manner, saying the work had commenced and the house would be built accoring to the plans presented. Thus began the beginning of temple building in this dispensation of time.

 

 

The next evening we stayed at the Palmyra Inn and arose early to visit the sacred grove. Again we were taken on a tour of the Joseph Smith Sr. home, and then were left alone to visit the sacred grove. Pictured to the right is the view from the back door of the home. You can see the path leading from Joseph's home to the sacred grove. To the left the fence which divided the Smith proporty. As Elder Barlow and I entered that holy place where God the Father and his Son, Jesus Christ appeared to the boy Prophet, we had a desire to read the account written by Joseph. We then bore our testimony to each other. As we sat there pondering, we looked just across the way and saw three beautiful deer grazing near by. All was quiet, nothing disturbed our peace. I will never forget that experience.

 



 After a brief visit to the Palmyra Temple and the Hill Cumorah we were eager to make our way to Whitesboro and our new home. We did stop and visit the Peter Whitmer Farm in Fayette which was right along the way. Inside the visitor's center we came upon this replica of a stained glass window. It took our breath away for it is the very window that is in the Santa Monica Ward building where Elder Barlow grew up. It is a one of a kind stain glass art and here was a repleca of it in New York.

 Upon our arrival to the Mission Office, we were greeted by Elder and Sister Carlinsey from Wyoming. They were so kind and patient with our training during the following two and a half weeks. We are now flying solo but they are only a phone call away. Our mission president, President and Sister Wirthlin, welcomed us into their home until we could move into our apartment. They are so wonderful to work with They have a great love for the gospel and for the 107 missionaries serving in this area.

 A couple of weeks later Elder and Sister Cutler joined us in the mission office, they are from Washington, Utah. We are grateful that they will be sharing the work. We are expecting 21 new Missonaries week after next. We have been busy helping President Wirthlin set up 8 new apartments which need to be furnished with sofa's beds, table and everything from measuring cups to Microwaves.

So here we are in our new apartment. We are learning our way around the neighborhood and getting to know the faithful saints in the Oneida Branch we have been assigned to. Their were 16 in attendance today and four were missionaries. I guess I will be the organist in Sacrament Meeting and Relief Society. I am really rusty and will have to do a lot of practicing. Their are a great deal of needs and we are grateful to serve wherever we can.

We love the gospel of Jesus Christ and are very grateful to be serving as missionaries. We love our family and friends and are grateful for their support.