August Daze

Cutlers and Barlows at Birthday Dinner

I'm late getting this month's blog out but I have a good excuse. It was our birthdays!!  All I asked for my birthday was a letter from each of our grandchildren. I got my wish and so I have been answering each of those letters. With as many grandchildren as we have, that took a very long time. Thank you, children and grandchildren for making our birthdays so special.

 

Sister's Lloyd and Steward surprise Sister Barlow

August was our "slow" month. We didn't have transfers in August because they fell on the first of September. I said that it was a "slow" month but not really. We still had MLC (Mission Leader Council), ZTM (Zone Training Meetings) and R&R (not rest and recreation but Return and Report). We also held a Sister's Conference and a Senior Missionary Conference.

Elder Barlow in Corn Field

Upstate New York Summer

We have watched the corn grow from just a seed to stalks "as high as an Elephants eye". Where ever you go there are miles and miles of corn fields. It still amazes me that this is all done without irrigation. The rains continued through August and into September. Although we had some days of humid weather (not my favorite), they didn't last too long. 

Cameron and Zach future Missionaries

Oneida Primary

 

Our little Oneida Branch continues to move along. Here are some pictures of our Primary with Sister Sanders, our Primary President and two of our boys, Zach and Cameron. Our investigator, Tony, is still coming out regularly with his wife, Jan. We have been assigned to be their home teachers and we love teaching them. Jan is excited with her husbands progress. He is not going to be jumping into this quickly but we all feel it will happen in his own time. He gets up early in the morning and reads his scriptures and the Ensign. Jan says he underlines all the articles. He then saves his questions and asks the elders or us. He asks all the right questions and is very thoughtful, a seeker of truth. We have grown to love them very much.
The mission's first Sister's Conference was a great success. We held workshops which were taught by our five STL's (Sister Trainer Leader's) and had a nice luncheon. Sister Cutler put together a cookbook which included recipes from the sisters and mission staff which included their pictures. I prepared Plan of Salvation visual aids for them to use in their teaching. It is wonderful to be with these sweet sisters. There was a lot of hugging going on that day.

 

Seniors Conference

Sister and Elder Barlow



Wirthlins own Sacred Grove in backyard

The Senior Missionary Conference was a great time to meet with the other Seniors and hear what they are doing. Each Senior Mission is so different. They use their talents to individualize their mission. For example, we have a couple who are ex-military. They are assigned to a base and support the LDS families who have spouses deployed over seas. They hold Family Home Evenings, Temple Prep classes and give moral support. Two couple are CES and run the Institute programs at Cornell and Universities in and around Albany. We have three couples in the north country where the branches are small. They are MLS (Mission Leader Support) who provide priesthood leadership. They are Branch Presidents and lend support to the members and make themselves known in the community. Then there are the Cutler's and the Barlow's who make up the Mission Office Staff. We all met at the Mission Home where we enjoyed a Bar-B-Que and fireside. President and Sister Wirthlin are both wonderful cooks. It is a good thing because they are always putting on luncheons or dinners for the masses. President Wirthlin's background is in meat production and he knows all there is to know about cuts of meat.

Pres. Wirthlin mining diamonds

Barlow find

The next morning we took off for Herkimer to explore the Diamond mines. We were able to go with hammer in hand and find the Diamonds. Anything we found we were able to keep. The "Herkimer Diamonds" is the name given to the doubly terminated quartz crystals found in Herkimer County, New York and surrounding areas.  These crystals have the typical hexagonal habit of quartz, however, instead of having a termination on one end they are doubly terminated. This is a result of the crystals growing with very little or no contact with their host rock. Such doubly terminated crystals are very rare and this is part of what makes Herkimer Diamonds so popular with mineral collectors. Most of us were able to find a few, all be it very small.

The Last Supper

Dinner with outgoing Elders



Sister Barlow was asked to teach a Family History class to the youth of the Rome Branch. In October she has been asked to return and teach the Relief Society there. We continue to enjoy our experience here in New York. The people are so warm and friendly and we continue to make friends wherever we go. We love our missionaries and feel sad when they leave us. Last time we said good bye to several that we had become very close to. Elder Rymer is a fine musician and is back in Provo attending BYU. He made it into Men's Chorus and we will be following his career when we return home. Elder Baird is another that we became close to. He lives on the Indian Reservation in Arizona. Although he is white (red hair), his mother was raised by the Navajo and Elder Baird was raised by his Navajo Grandmother. He had to cut off his long red braid to go on a mission.

Until next month (which is just a week away) we will sign off. Love you all. We love our Savior and grateful we can serve Him in New York.  Elder and Sister Barlow

Temple Trip

New York in July

Hi Family and Friends.

Oh what do you do in the summer time, when all the world is green?   In New York we have enjoyed fireflies (amazing, we have never seen one before), a trip to Hill Cumorah to see the Pageant, a round of Zone Conferences, a Bar B Que at the Oneida Branch and many opportunities to serve.

I'll start off with where we left you last month, the floods.... On Fast Day we held a brief Fast and Testimony meeting and then we were dismissed to go help the flood victims. Here are a couple of pictures of Elder Barlow and our Elder Black serving in the low lands of Oneida. Sister Barlow helped a young Mother of three pack up the belongings that were salvageable while Elder Black, Wankier and Elder Barlow helped haul off all the other possessions to the side of the curb to be hauled away. We love Elder Black and Wankier. Elder Black has moved on to Syracuse now to served as a Zone Leader in Syracuse. Things have dried out now and people are putting their lives back together.  One of the less actives that we helped that day is back in church so some good has come from that experience.

Elder and Sister Barlow were privileged to tour the mission with President and Sister Wirthlin in July. Sister Barlow presented training on how to use Family History in Missionary Work. It was received well and several missionaries have reported back that they are using it with some good results. First we had a Zone Conference in Albany. Dr Aldus, the Doctor who oversees the medical issues in ten missions on the East Coast joined us along with his wife. I thought our job was busy. His phone was ringing constantly while they were with us.  Next we traveled to Owego Zone and stayed at a lovely hotel right on the Susquehanna River. The drive between Albany and Owego was absolutely breath taking. After driving back to Utica we caught our breath until the next week when we held three more Zone Conferences at Utica, Syracuse and then Pots Dam.

 

We drove along the St Lawrence River to the North Country. Although I haven't been outside the United States (or does Tijuana count?) I got a glimpse of Canada on the other side of the river.  After the Zone Conference in Pots Dam we traveled down through the Adirondacks. So many beautiful lakes, too many to count. I think they ran out of names and started calling them Lake 1, Lake 2.... etc. The Adirondacks are known for their unusual chairs. Here are some samples of what we saw along the way.





We visited a museum where we learned of the history of the area(rt). One of the last stops in the Adirondacks  was a short hike to Buttermilk Falls (lft). We don't want you to think that all we do is sight see but as we drive from one area of the mission to another, we do get out and stretch our legs. 

Next we were off to Palmyra where we were privileged to see the Hill Cumorah Pageant. First, we returned to Mendon, New York, where the Barlow's were first introduced to the gospel. We stopped at the Tomlinson Cemetery where Heber C. Kimball's father, Solomon, and Brigham Young's first wife are buried. Solomon Kimball's house stands next to this old barn that is covered in Ivy. We were told that two huge turkey vultures with wing spans of 6 feet live inside.  We were not able to visit the mill pond where Brigham baptized Israel Barlow because it began to rain. We'll have to return and do more exploring. We were able to see the property where Israel's home stood (it no longer stands).

 

The pageant was rained out the night before so we were praying the rain would stop, and it did. We revisited the Sacred Grove, this time it had leaves. At the Hill Cumorah Visitor's Center we bumped into Brother Richmond and it turned out he was from Ft Collins and
worked with our son-in-law, John Gover, at Intell. His children are friends with their children. Just before the pageant started we ran into Sister Blanchard from Wendy's ward who's family was in the pageant. It is amazing what a small world it is. While at the Pots Dam Zone Conference I met President Francom, the Stake President there who turned out to be a cousin. I had to travel all the way to New York and a small town to find him.

Transfers were last week with thirteen new missionaries entering NYUM and five leaving. There were an unusual amount of changes in leadership and companionships, well over 80. Each of those changes mean hours of work for the mission staff. After this weekend we should be back to normal. This next week we will have a Sister's Conference, the first one that the mission has had. With the addition of all the new Sisters, President felt it important for them to meet and discuss concerns that are unique to them. Along with this change five of the sisters have been called as Sister Leader Trainers who help train and advocate for the Sisters in their Zone and attend and participate in all Zone Leader training meetings. The President feels strongly about giving opportunities to many missionaries to serve in leadership positions so AP's are changed about every two transfers and Zone Leadership is changed frequently. We said good-bye to our AP, Elder Tollefson who went to the North Country and we welcomed Elder Tanner who will serve for his next two transfers along with Elder Lewis.

Today, two of our grandchildren were baptized, Owen McKinnon and Maggie Barlow. We have never missed a grandchild's baptism before but this is part of the sacrifice we make. We are proud of the the decision that they made to be baptized and to "Come Unto Christ".  We love our family and are grateful for their support. I will end this post as President Wirthlin, "Eternally in the Lords Work"
Elder and Sister Barlow

June Jubilations

 

Now we know what happens in Up State NY in June, it rains and rains and rains! The good news is that it kept the temperatures down. The bad news is that the rains came down and the floods came up!  We have wide spread flooding along the Mohawk River where we live, Oneida where we attend church and near by Herkimer.  The missionaries are out with their yellow "Helping Hands" T-shirts this weekend, cleaning up the mess and the Church has come to the aid of these communities with shipments of food and other emergency items.  I've never seen so much water. It doesn't just sprinkle, it comes down in sheets. We live and work on "higher ground" so personally we have not felt the affects of the flood?

Elder's Jones and Borgia woke up and saw some alerts for flash floods on their cell phone. They didn't think much of it until they opened their door and saw this.
The car on the right is one of our brand new mission car's. Elder Barlow is not smiling. The entire town of Herkimer was under water. Where is the ark when you need it.

We started out the month with a visit from our dear friends, the Gilstraps. Elder Barlow served in a bishopric with Bishop Gilstrap and Luana introduced Sister Barlow to Family History in the Brentwood Ward many years ago. Howard attended Hamilton College in nearby Clinton. They were celebrating his 50th anniversary at Hamilton.  They gave us a tour of the beautiful campus and stayed a couple of nights. We love these good folks! 



Places we visited this month were the Adironacks on the right and and Sylvan Beach at Lake Oneida on the left. Beautiful country.










I thought I would share a letter I was asked to write to our ward RS describing our mission. It gives a general description of our life in the mission field.

Dear Sisters of the Rock Canyon Ward,

Hello from beautiful up state New York.  Elder Barlow and I are enjoying our mission very much. Today marks six months out and the time is flying bye. Our decision to serve a mission was one of the best decision we ever made. We love the people we serve especially the great missionaries in the New York Utica Mission. When we arrived here last January there were just over 100 missionaries in the Mission, now we have close to 180.  It has been a busy six months and we are grateful to be involved in the "hastening of the work".

I thought I would give you a run down of our responsibilities. We are senior missionaries working as office staff. Our mission president is Joseph B Wirthlin Jr. and his wife.  Our main responsibility is to be a resource and help to the missionaries and to aid President and Sister Wirthlin. We serve with another office couple, Elder and Sister Cutler from the St. George area. We love these people.

We work at the Mission Office from 8am to 5pm.  I am responsible for the in-coming and out-going mail which needs to be forwarded to the missionaries each day. I am also the referral secretary and order the supplies for the office. I take care of correspondence and preparation for the out-going missionaries. We help Sister Wirthlin with upcoming zone and district meetings and assist her with the luncheons that are given in conjunction with those meetings.  Elder Barlow is responsible for a fleet of 71 cars, their maintenance and insurance claims. Together we have helped set up about 40 new apartments. We both help do training at various meetings. I know this doesn't sound much like a missionary but we have been told that the missionaries couldn't do there work with out someone looking to the details. The spirit is in all the workings of the mission.  It is a privilege to be at the hub of things and to feel the power that fills the room when a large group of missionaries are there.

We have also received the assignment of working with the members of a small branch (twig) in Oneida New York. We travel 25 miles each Sunday to worship and to serve the 20 or so in attendance. I am the organist, Primary Teacher (we have from 1 to 6 children in the Primary each Sunday), Primary Sharing Time Chorister, Family History Consultant and Visiting Teacher/Home Teacher to several. Elder Barlow acts as Branch Ward Clerk, Sunday School Teacher, Family History Consultant and often teaches Priesthood as well. We have the opportunity to speak in Sacrament Mtg. often.We work closely with the missionaries in the Branch to assist in fellow-shipping and visiting investigators. Today we visited with Tony and Janet, a part member family. We have become very attached to Tony who is investigating the church.

We are being blessed with good health and vigor beyond our years. We love this great work. We come home each night tired but satisfied that we are doing the Lord's work. We miss our family and friends but would never want to miss the experiences that we are having. Thank you for your support and love. See you in a year.

Sister Mary Lou Barlow

P.S.  President Wirthlin is looking for more Senior Missionaries to serve in the New York Utica Mission as Member Leadership Support. They work in different area's where their is an urgent  need for seasoned members to assist in the branches and give support to the younger missionaries.  If any one is interested please contact me and I will give your information to President Wirthlin so he can request your service.  Come join the fun.

 

This is the baptism we had at the beginning of June. McKinsy 12 and Zac 10. They are members of the Oneida Branch and I teach Zac in Primary. Their father will be joining the church soon.


We said good bye to Sister Smith, Elder Tibbitts and Elder Olson. Sister Smith was one of our favorites. They were all awesome missionaries.

We welcomed 21 new missionaries into the field in June.  On the first row on the far right is Sister Lloyd from Windsor, CO near Ft Collins. I understand their family recently moved to Utah.

Until next month, we send our love to our family and friends. Please keep in touch.  Missionaries love to get mail. We get ours at PO Box 149, Whitesboro NY 13492.  Love you.  Elder and Sister Barlow

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

May Flowers

 

 New York weather is tricky in May. The colors of spring are in full array as shown by this beautiful tree just outside the front door of our Mission Office. The next moment we are caught in a hailstorm so powerful that we have to pull off to the side of the road and find shelter. A few minutes latter, at the end of the storm,  a magnificent rainbow appears. One day it is hot the next it is freezing.  The landscape is beautiful and lush now that the leaves are on the trees. We have almost forgotten what New York looked like in the winter.

 

Now that the weather is better, we are venturing out to see this beautiful mission area. Elder Barlow needed to install some T-wii units in the mission cars this month. A T-wii is an electronic device which monitors the driving of our missionaries. It warns them if they are going over the speed limit, have aggressive driving, use of the car after hours (10pm) or leave the mission area. A report is given to Elder Barlow and President Wirthlin for review. If they appear on the report consistently, they may have their driving privileges taken away. The studies have shown this keeps our missionaries safe.

 

We traveled over to Albany Zone and met the Sisters at a farm, While Elder Barlow installed their T-wii, we enjoyed a delicious breakfast. After, Elder and Sister Barlow traveled to Albany to see some sites.  Our first stop was at the center of the State's capital. In the heart of downtown is a beautiful complex which includes the State Capital Building (which looks like a castle), offices and the New York State Museum. We were excited to learn that the Museum housed a wonderful display of the Mohawk Indian Tribe, one of the six tribes of the Iroquois federation. This is the place and the tribe of which Sister Barlow has a special connection.

 We love that we were sent on a mission right where our ancestors lived. On Granny Andrew's side we have a line that is shrouded in family folk lore and mystery. Sylvanus Hulet, who was from Connecticut and then Massachusetts, was a soldier in both the French & Indian War and two campaigns in the Revolutionary War, one against Burgoyne in 1777 and another against Arnold, who burned his home town in South Connecticut in 1780. After the war the Hulet family returned to Massachusetts. Sylvanus mustered out of the colonial army in New York. He married Mary Lewis who is believed to be from Albany, New York. Mary Lewis was five years younger than Sylvanus and the search for her origins has plagued generations of Hulet Family genealogists. Mary Lewis was one-quarter Indian. The name of her grandmother was remembered in the family as Running Deer. That's all that is known. Assuming that Mary was from the Albany area, we learned from our trip to the Capital that this is Mohawk territory.  There are hints in the names of her children and grandchildren (Lewis, Francis, Schyler-- all New York Colonial names) that hers was a New York family and her Indian relations may very well have been Mohawk of the Iroquois Confederacy. We also know that Sally Hullet, daughter of Mary Lewis and Sylvester Hulet, visited with her Mohawk Indian relatives about 1814 in New York, north and west of Albany along the Mohawk River.

 



Philip Schuyler was a major-general in the American Revolution, a United States senator and a delegate to the second Continental Congress. He had a mansion in the heart of Albany. We were able to visit that mansion. Here, Benjamin Franklin visited, George Washington dined, and British General John Burgoyne stayed as a prisoner of war. Schuyler would have lived here when Mary and her family were in the area. It is interesting that Schuyler or Shyler was a family name.


Another interesting figure we learned about, who lived earlier, along the Mohawk River near Albany was Sir William Johnson, 1st Baronet.  He was an Anglo-Irish official of the British Empier. As a young man, Johnson moved to the Province of New York.  He would have lived at the time of our Running Deer who was three years his junior.  Johnson became closely associated with the Mohawk and learned their language.  The Mohawks saw in Johnson someone who could advocate their interests in the British imperial system.  Sometime around 1742 (about the time Mary's mother was born), they adopted him as an honorary sachem, or civil chief.  He was named Warraghiyagey, which translated is "A Man who undertakes great Things". In his lifetime, Johnson gained a reputation as a man who had numberous children with European and Native American women (are you my grandaddy?). At the time, men were not ostracized for having illegitimate children, as long as they could afford it and supported them. So we see that our Mohawk and the British, whom the Mohawk aligned themselves during the early years, interacte with each other.  Their main interaction was the fur trade.





As we followed the highway back along the Mohawk River to our home, we couldn't help think what it must have been like for our ancestors who lived here. We decided to get out and take this picture. Sister Barlow approached the river's edge only to begin slipping on the moss covered shore. Elder Barlow grabbed her before she slipped into the river. He said, "Your not much of an Indian, are you."

On Memorial Day weekend, Elder and Sister Cutler and the two of us, decided to visit Ft Stanwix which is in neighboring Rome. Before arriving at Ft Stanwix we stopped by the battlefield where the Battle of Oriskany was fought on August 6, 1777. It was one of the bloodiest battles of the American Revolutionary War. Early in the siege of Fort Stanwix, an American relief force from the Mohawk Valley under Genertal Nicholas Herkimer, numbering around 800 men approached in an attmept to raise the siege. During the battle, Herkimer was mortally wounded. The battle cost the Patriots approximately 450 casualties, while the Loyalists and Indians lost approximately 150 dead and wounded.

Because of Memorial Day weekend, there was a very realistic reenactment of the events at Ft Stanwix. This is how we were greeted at the entrance and then were taken to the General's quarters to be questioned as to our intentions. These are Scottish colonial soldiers who were some of the earliest inhabitants of the fort which was built by the British. Fort Stanwix was abandoned in 1768 and allowed to go into ruin. The fort was reoccupied by Colonial troops on July 12, 1776. They began reconstruction and renamed it Fort Schuyler, although many continued to call it Fort Stanwix. After it was no longer being used it once again fell into disrepair and the City of Rome grew up on the site. Many years later, a fire destroyed an entire block where the fort stood and between 1974 and 1978 the fort was reconstructed. Here are some additional picutures:

 



 

 We actually had a couple of slow weeks so you can see that we took advantage of the time. We are once again as busy as ever. Elder Barlow just set up nine more apartments and received another eight new cars. We had Return and Report and Zone Leader Council last week and are gearing up for twenty one new missionaries to enter the field next week.  As busy as we are, we feel that our Father in Heaven is giving us the strength and health to carry out our responsibilities.  We love our mission, our missionaries and President and Sister Wirthlin.  We are having the time of our lives.  We pray for each of you every day. We pray for your families and for your happiness.  Until next month.....